Decide what “repeat” means to you
Some providers like to see a handful of regulars often. Others prefer a wider rotation. There is no correct strategy, only one that matches your schedule, lifestyle, and emotional bandwidth.
Keep notes after each session
Short private notes — how they tipped, how they communicated, any red or green flags — help you remember who’s who without rereading whole text threads. Over time you’ll see patterns that inform who you prioritise.
Reward reliability, not just spending
Reliable, on-time clients who respect your boundaries often bring more peace than last-minute high spenders. Small courtesies like flexible scheduling or priority booking can be reserved for people who consistently make your work easier.
Know when to end it gracefully
If someone starts pushing more often, asking for “special” favours, or ignoring boundaries, it’s ok to retire the connection. A simple “I’m not able to continue booking together, but I wish you the best” is enough.
This article is part of the Pure Independents® Blog — resources for independent companions and respectful clients in New York City.