How to Book Independent Companionship Safely (NYC 2025)
Discretion Verification Consent
This practical guide explains, step-by-step, how to plan and confirm a lawful, consensual independent companionship experience in NYC. We cover verification, communication, deposits, meet-up points, privacy, red flags, and etiquette.
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1) Initial research
- Clear photos, no conflicting watermarks
- Professional bio and consistent style
- Transparent availability and areas covered
2) First message
Hi, I’m Alex. I’ll be in Midtown on Friday 7–9 pm. Would you be open to lobby coffee and a short walk? Happy to follow your screening and deposit policy.
3) Screening & verification
- Short video/audio call
- Email from work domain
- Verifiable references
- Deposit with cancellation policy
4) Deposits & terms
Tip: Prefer recoverable methods with receipts and 2FA.
5) Meet-up point
- Greet → Short drink → Decide to extend
6) Consent & boundaries
Consent must be explicit, ongoing, and reversible.
7) Digital privacy
- Dedicated inbox
- Disable link previews
8) Red flags
- Pressure for sensitive documents
- Frequent identity/payment changes
- Odd-hour pressure
9) Etiquette
Respect, punctuality, light conversation, proper attire.
10) After the meet
Thank them and leave safe, non-explicit feedback.
